Ok SEX…there’s three types…

1) making love – intimacy…lookin into each other’s eyes, kissing, and slowly movin up to that one moment when you two are completely and utterly alone..just the two of you..no one/thing existed but just the two of you..

2) sex – plain, doin it for the sake of doin it.  pleasure but no feelings.  doesn’t even matter who you’re doin it with. some kissing..but definitely no gazing into each other’s eyes.

3) f*ckin – straight up wild/kinky/fun.  Crazy shit happens when you’re in this phase.  everything goes..you don’t care who’s listening..or watching for some of you.  it’s like when you want it…you’ve got to have it.  and this only applies when you’re with someone fun.  name callin, back scratchin, pouncing…

Business or Pleasure

all of these above are fun.  now the key to sex is you must understand the concept of sex.  some of you girls think, well if i can make him orgasm..my work is done…and some of you guys think, if i can bust a nut, my work is done.  no no no, first, girls, it’s not about making the guy finish as fast as he can..or as fast as you can make them finish…where’s the fun in that?  guys, you gotta please the woman too…if the ladies aren’t having fun…don’t you just wonder..am i doin this right? Makin the man finish his business is the last thing you gotta worry about…first..make sure you get your end of the bargain.  am i right?  i mean..i’m not tryin to offend anyone by sayin this..but girls..wouldn’t you feel like a whore if you’re there to please the man?  but don’t get me wrong..girls, you do need to finish your job too…knowing that you can make your dude finish is the icing on the cake..it’s like..oh yay, he enjoyed it..i kno what i’m doin and man i’m good.  same goes for guys too.  how would you feel if you came and your girl is just blah…would you feel like you’re the man? would you even think  you’re good at sex?

like chris rock said…a crack head and a christian cannot be together…but a crackhead and a crackhead can stay together forever.  it’s almost like that…

well there goes my first entry…i’ll see when i’ll keep writing..maybe i’ll do it by business days. haha…